Among the small parrots, cockatiels and lovebirds are the most loved by people coming to bird keeping for the first time. Both are colorful, sociable and manageable in an apartment, but they have different temperaments and needs. In this guide from the Code Fatate breeder near Naples we compare them to help you choose the small parrot that suits you best.
Two small parrots compared
The cockatiel (Nymphicus hollandicus) comes from Australia and is in fact a small cockatoo, recognizable by its crest and its characteristic orange "cheek patches". Lovebirds come from Africa instead and are smaller, stockier little parrots with bright colors, famous for the bond they form with their partner.
Appearance and size
| Feature | Cockatiels | Lovebird |
|---|---|---|
| Length | 30–33 cm (long tail) | 13–17 cm (stocky body) |
| Distinguishing features | Crest and orange cheek patches | Vivid colors, eye ring |
| Lifespan | 15–20 years | 10–15 years |
| Voice | Melodious whistles, a few words | High-pitched, frequent calls |
Temperament and sociability
The cockatiel has a particularly gentle and affectionate temperament: if hand-raised it becomes tame, loves cuddles and tolerates handling well. It is among the parrots best suited to beginners and families.
Lovebirds are more lively and energetic: curious and very active, they have a strong, sometimes territorial temperament. They are very rewarding but require a little more experience and patience to manage.
Voice and ability to imitate
Neither species is a "talker" on a par with an African Grey, but the cockatiel — especially the male — can learn to whistle tunes and repeat a few words. Lovebirds rarely talk: they express themselves with high-pitched, frequent calls, which you should take into account if you live in an apartment with close neighbors.
Daily care and space
Both need a spacious cage, time out of the cage every day and stimulation. The cockatiel, having a long tail, needs a taller and roomier cage. For the correct diet of the cockatiel you can read our guide on diet and daily care of the cockatiel.
In pairs or alone?
Lovebirds owe their name to their habit of living in pairs: it is advisable not to leave them alone for long, unless they are hand-raised and looked after daily by their owner. The cockatiel is more flexible and can form a very strong bond with humans too, living happily as the only parrot in the house if it gets enough attention.
Cockatiels or Lovebirds: which should you choose?
- Choose the cockatiel if you're a beginner, you're looking for a gentle, cuddly and melodious parrot, and you have room for a large cage.
- Choose the lovebird if you like a lively, spirited little parrot, you have a bit of experience and can give it constant time and interaction.
Our hand-fed parrots near Naples
At the Code Fatate breeder we raise cockatiels and lovebirds with care, so that they are well socialized and used to contact with people. Would you like personalized advice on the species that suits you best? Contact us: we'll be happy to help you choose.






